Grief - It's NOT Supposed To Be OK!
It is finally here. After many revisions and reviews, it is ready for release. Thank you to everyone in our Advance Release Community (ARC) for your valuable input and feedback.
The Three Main Points of the Book are:
- Your Grief Is Unique. – I shutter anytime I hear someone starting a comfort conversation with, “I know how you feel, I lost my …” Our relationship, shared moments, history, and plans and dreams all make that statement impossible.
- There Is No Right Or Wrong Way. – If grief is unique, how can there be a right or wrong way to grieve? You suffered a loss and your life is forever changed. You are on a journey, and sure there are deadends you want to avoid, but don’t let other people tell you how to grieve.
- There Is No Timeline. – If there is no right or wrong way, how can there be a timeline? We call it a journey, albeit an unwanted one, because the word journey implies movement and progress. Not a progress like, “OK, I’m over it.”, but more “This is how I bear the unbearable, and go on.
Maybe we will have an online launch party. Let us know in the comments what you think and if you are interested in getting together online. It would be great to see everyone and put some faces and names together.